When you are in the company of others who are fearful, and you want to help and feel helpless and cannot. Simply maintain your gratitude and love and joy and happiness, it will help them to raise theirs. It may not happen immediately but it will happen. People, even really cranky people, innately want to feel happy, sometimes its just too scary for them or they don’t know how. Simply be yourself, raise your own vibration, be that tuning fork that resonates with beautiful harmony and soon others will resonate with you also.